The Love Of Strangers

I realized something this morning.

The best Christmas my family ever had when I was growing up was the one time my parents actually accepted help. To them, the reason we kids enjoyed it so much was because we were given more than we deserved. We were spoiled, and happy about it.

That wasn’t it. In fact, it really wasn’t that much at all.

It was the thoughtfulness they, possibly even strangers, put into the gifts.

It was the feeling of actually being seen.

Care from strangers > “care” from parents.

Even Plastic Surgery Wasn’t Enough

Today I tried to use Sora to create an image showing how it feels trying to meet expectations as a woman in today’s society. It’s not perfect, but neither are we realistically.

Injections, plastic surgery, plenty of makeup, great hair of course… you get the idea.

By contrast, I feel like a suit and a quick brush is all that’s needed for many men to feel presentable.

He looks so happy…